^ Tell her not to fear and think of her happiness. If I was with an abusive man, physical or mental, I would find myself better off single then tortured. Allah swt takes care of his own and he will take care of her too. NO WHERE does it say women should stick it out in bad relatioships and be with horrible men.
She needs to take a stand for herself, talk to her mother, father, sisters and friends. Let them know her decision and if they support it, wonderful! If not, thats okay. No one has the right to dictate how a person lives their lives. Her siblings are not the ones marrying this guy or giving birth to his kids so they have no right to impose their opinions on her. It will be tough but I would rather see her happy and healthy rather then in this state. If a man can threaten divorce without a whim even before the rukhsati then imagine if he actually goes through with it one day? What if she is pregnant at the time? All that hard work for nothing?
She is better off without him.
Great Post.
Next time when on the phone he talk about divorce open speaker phone ask your mom, dad and especially siter to listen or record to let them listen.
If a guy says talaq three times even as a joke as I heard talaq ho jati hai.
Next time very rudely when he says I will divorce you you have to say okay give me divorce right now.
If he say that you won't get married again or other person could divorce you then you have to say I'll get way better than you.
Be very confident and tell him main bhi kisi kay divorce ki dhamki say darti naheen.
If he use once talaq word then you start keep insisting him give me divorce.
Better to get real talaq from that person. Reallay sounds badmaash and budtameez to me.