okies.. a son of my dad’s friend contacted me in regards to someone he’s about to start a business contract with… he wants to know what I think of the guy.. the son, although i dont get along with too well, is a pretty honest dude and im kinda honoured hes contacted me for adivce..
the guy he wants to know about.. is someone im not intouch with anymore.. and i guess cus he wasnt honest with me.. also, hes using a “fake” name to do the business with the son..
what should i do? my instincts tell me to tell the son to just leave it.. to not get into any sort of business deal with him… but then am i being selfish? what if this business deal can do wonders for the son… i dunno.. im confused.. should i let my personal experience get in the way of giving him proper advice? or should i take that into consideration…
tell him the experience that you had with him and that obviously makes you biased.....but also point out to him that maybe as a business partner he may be beneficial......but if he wasnt honest with you doesnt that tell you something about his character...also why is he using a fake name?
exactly just tell him the truth coz if he did do the deal and then it didnt work out and found out later that you knew something about the guy but didnt enlighten him then you could end up being the bad guy…honesty is the best policy…
arritey... thanks Devoted... I hate doing this sorta stuff, i mean having people rely on my advice. Maybe, something better may come along for him, Inshallah... i feel bad for doing this to the other guy as well... but aah my instincts tell me to stop the guy from going into any deal
i always think that you should follow your instincts becoz 99% of the time when you dont you end up thinking " i should have listened to myself "…as long as you believe you are doing the right thing everything should go well inshallah!