Same family. Same Girl. I thought my comment or comments at that small awkward tea party would have done the trick. Not so it seems. I have recieved an e-mail from her which is short and simple let is odd for our normal method of communication.
And the same CM. *Okay, so what exactly is the problem here? The tone of her email? It's too sombre for you? It's possible that the email is sombre because she was having a bad day OR maybe it does have something to do with you. My advice is the same as it was in your previous thread. Don't ignore her without warning...........that's insensitive. You can tell yourself that you're ignoring her only to help her move on........but there's a more decent way to go about rejection as well. Talk to her about the situation. Tell her nicely that you hope the misconception her parents had about you has been cleared up. Tell her that you see her as a good friend and you want it to remain that way. Then tell her that you believe honest communication is important and that you understand if she wants to maintain a distance from you because you don't want to even unintentionally hurt someone. *
- Ignore e-mail.
- Not to ignore the e-mail. Go with this one. It's the courteous thing to do; polite but straightforward communication. After this if she persists with strange emails.................THEN.................you can ignore her. And that way it won't seem as rude because you've already done the decent thing of communicating your expectations/feelings to her.
Ah but there is the rub. And that is all I remember from the 2 be or not 2 be sollilque? (spelling?)
^It's spelled soliloquy
****Now, if you TRULY don't have a romantic interest in her.............then don't start chasing her when she starts ignoring you completely. Sometimes that can lead to guys chasing.....only to get attention..........only to repeat the cycle over again.