Need Advice, Rishta and Compromises

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Re: Need Advice, Rishta and Compromises

@Zafra

Wrong place to ask for such advice. The sad truth is those women who will tell you not to settle, most likely compromised on something when they got married.

lol no. Not always.

I HAVE seen friends that thought the world was going to end if they weren’t married by 26 so they said yes to the first not completely lame guy that showed up for a rishta and they’re a) unhappy with their married life b) unhappy with their career/lack of career c) divorced.

I think the whole “husband’s mentality can be changed” thinking is dangerous and incorrect. You can go into a partnership (which marriage is) NOT okay with what’s been put out on the table and delude yourself into thinking you can convince someone to change their mind. Yeah, it happens, but going into a marriage and committing longterm to someone hoping that is unhealthy and will most likely lead to unhappiness and disappointment.