Re: Need Advice, Rishta and Compromises
It’s a little embarrassing posting something like this online, but in my condition, you just want someone to tell you the right answer, they will go to all types of places, to experienced aunts, friends, psychics or possibly peer baba gs.
It’s been a week since i have been in this confused state, and close to nervous breakdown, whatsapped my friends, laid in my moms arms for hours and then went to pray. This morning not only I got a call from his sisters (first call) but my friends came over for nashta too.
had a detailed discussion, AH i feel very light now.
Medicine was not our choice, getting good marks, made it seem natural, then along the way, it got too serious and professional. My friends are sitting next to me while i am responding back. most of them said “they want to have him, if I am not having him (jokingly)”
I would like to thank you all for responding me back. I liked iconoclast’s opinion, we’ll see how things unroll and I think i’ll take my chances, disucssing with him directly. if we can work out some moderate path ~4 hours work/job that equally good.
I’ll stick to praying part until rest is cleared (i am not a religious person) but this always works.
In the end i’ll just do istakhara and jump!
I have started to have a good feeling about this.
Thank you all again.