Salaam its my first tme opening a thread… I need sme real help
I love this guy and knw him for good 5 yrs now… We met online , i live in west and he is from eastern countries… His family knws abt us and is fine wid it… But i belong to a conservative family… They dnt knw abt him… And i dnt knw how they will react after knwing i met him online … Due to all fake ppl out there i dnt knw how they will react:(…
He is been trying to cme here but its hard…
I love him and i trust him… Its just i need adive on wut to do :(?? And if its a good idea to tell my parents
My Family is coservative and we always hve arrange marriges in our family… I was brought up tht way but i dnt knw how and whn this happened but it did:(
Re: Need advice plzz
You got to do what you got to do - you know ! however before discolsing it to your family , I reckon you should meet him in person , meet him for few times , evaluate him and they take it off from there !
as mostly in such cases as they say :
HaIN kawa'kaab kuch nazar atay haiN kuch
dayte haiN yea Bazigar dhooka khulaa
Re: Need advice plzz
before telling your family, try to meet him in person, if possible or video chat with him using Skype and find more about him, his life, personality etc.
Did he tell you that his family is okay with this relationship? If so then there is no harm in talking to female folk in his house once to see if it is true.
During online interaction, be careful and do not send him your pictures/video clips on his requests...
Once you are satisfied yourself, then first try to talk to your elder sister or cousin etc. whom you can trust and get their opinion. Based on that opinion, tell your parents (it will be better if that person tells them).
Getting love marriage in conservative families is tricky, some families do not encourage this but once it happens they are okay with it, others can wreck havoc.
Re: Need advice plzz
So how many eastern countries is your bf from?
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I hve skype wid his mom and sis few tmes ....his mom does not say a definite answer ... She is willing to meet my family and see ... As she says she does not knw me well so she cant make a decision ....
The thng is how to tell my family abt him:(?