I have this friend who now wants to get married. He does have strange gayish demands though. Let me tell you about his past, a little, that will explain his personality type.
He broke up with his last girl because she wanted him to set ground rules and act appropriately.
But boy even in love, played idiotic games around her(Now to onwards we will call him SB..).
He claimed he did not have any male friends. And he want to hang out and have fun with girls.
Poor Ex-girl, wanting to get married baddly, try to adjust with this thing.
But occasionally, SB use words for his friends as “yummy” “she is a babe” “she want to be more then friend(implying Sex)”
Now when ever his Ex-girl confronted him for that his usual grayish response used to be, “u don’t understand me”…“u are sicko”… “she comes to my room through balcony so what??”
On the top SB mostly lied like Bytch almost about every thing… u name it…So Ex-girl did not know how to make things work… what to believe and what not to believe… If you talk to SB, because he isn’t too care full, you can some time sense drooling + extremely flirtish attitude to wards girls.
yet he wanted Ex-girl to “trust her” To SB talking to random girls in the mall is ok, he tries to get their phone no etc. And claim he is being social. He only wish to social with “hot chicks”
One thing common in them, they were so hopeless they let this psycho-thriller go on for a long time.
Now SB is looking for a Girl… any one want him???
And If you thinking “noway” then what do you see wrong with it? I will greatly appreciate response from girls who are married and have real relationship.
Because I spoke to Ex-girl in detail, she wanted to hand this “job(SB)” over to some one else.
Note: please don’t quote. I will greatly appreciate that.
Sorry, but your shareef bacha friend seems like a jerk and a playboy. Unfortunately though, the reality of the world is that if he's good looking, he'll get a lot of girls to have fun with since as long as the guy is good looking, all the playboyness turns into "charms" and "class".
He should marry a girl who is like him i.e. flirty and all that and they'll be happy together.
Sorry, but your shareef bacha friend seems like a jerk and a playboy. Unfortunately though, the reality of the world is that if he's good looking, he'll get a lot of girls to have fun with since as long as the guy is good looking, all the playboyness turns into "charms" and "class".
He should marry a girl who is like him i.e. flirty and all that and they'll be happy together.
Sad part its not SB's looks what make him popular.. its his yapping...willingness to do what ever it takes. And he is the type who go on do the things... and find excuse after....kind of boy..
Come on people!
We can realy use some help here. Is there way to find out if this thing is worth keeping. Is it a every day issue people have to put up with?
Do you know how many guys out there are like this? They just keep ruining women's lives. And girls, being idiots (and I should talk, the last guy I spoke to sounds eerily familiar), keep falling for it hoping that THEY'll be the one to change him.
These guys don't change.
If this were 400 A.D. , its these guys who would have had 20 wives.
The world just doesn't work that way anymore, so genetics is still there, just now these people are confused and don't know what to do with themselves and women don't know what to do with THEM.
She should just stop talking to him - why bother handing him off to someone and ruining another girl's life. Tell this girl to have some pity for women, and let everyone know NOT to date him.
Do you know how many guys out there are like this? They just keep ruining women's lives. And girls, being idiots (and I should talk, the last guy I spoke to sounds eerily familiar), keep falling for it hoping that THEY'll be the one to change him.
These guys don't change.
If this were 400 A.D. , its these guys who would have had 20 wives.
The world just doesn't work that way anymore, so genetics is still there, just now these people are confused and don't know what to do with themselves and women don't know what to do with THEM.
She should just stop talking to him - why bother handing him off to someone and ruining another girl's life. Tell this girl to have some pity for women, and let everyone know NOT to date him.
Thanks Pyari!
Agreed.
This is interesting. Thing is SB keep playing victim, a person who needs help. When helps comes he hurt it with his lies games etc etc. He did show signs of improvement ,then a little thing happens between them, that wakes up SB real or old self up(Ex-girl thinks he is have been reforming), and Ex-girl feels all her work is wasted.
Ex let go many time, even if it made her sad, but SB has his ways to come back,
At times it feels like love + delusional personality on SB's part.
I have no idea what to advice Ex-girl any more. Other then she need to be treated with dignity. And should not put up with SB's effort to make her compromise with the fact, that SB has to have opposite Sex around him all the time. And when ever he gets up sets he is going to talk in semi-orgi way about his platonic co-workers and friends.
Guys play the victim game deliberately - and I think some do it subconsciously. She needs to identify this, realize it exists, and just walk away from this guy. You cannot change men. Don't try. He is what he is. Best any woman can do is just try to get to know a guy, find out who he is, and then determine if she wants to live under the same roof as someone with that personality. Because the personality will not change, especially from the wife. He's a playa. He will stay a playa.
Deeba, I could not believe my ears either.
PSQ there is a twist in this story, I will think If I want share that.
For now enjoy this....SB when confronted by Ex-girl, aobut ties with women said "what I do is none of your business" "I don't care what some one else does. so no should ask me what I do"
