I have an old skool friend, she s half pakistani. But raized is a 100% pakistani.
Khair, she really likes this other guy, also pakistani and an old friend of hers.
Now she likes the guy for some years now and thinks the guy likes her to.
she decided some time ago that if he doesnt marry her, she wont marry anyone else.
I v told her several times to tell him how she feels and If she doesnt want to I can talk to the guy because I know him aswell.
But she doesnt want to be the one who makes the move, ( I think she s scared, she ll get hurt if she takes a stap and he declines) and besides that, their rishta was completely based on friendship.
I dont know what to tell her anymore, but I do think she s acting childish by not giving a shot
some advice would be appreciated guys
she s not a guppy, but I ll print this thread and replys out and show her what you guys have to say :k:
If she won't make a move, then you should tell the guy that you think she like him and hear his feedback. Try and nudge him into making the move, or see if he's totally uninterested or not. Don't say that you know she like him; just say you think she likes him and sound him out.
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by mAd_ScIeNtIsT: *
If she won't make a move, then you should tell the guy that you think she like him and hear his feedback. Try and nudge him into making the move, or see if he's totally uninterested or not. Don't say that you know she like him; just say you think she likes him and sound him out.
Plus we know you're gay, stop denying it :p
[/QUOTE]
I agree with Maddy what he said.
You can try find out what he think about ur friend.
Hmmm dus ze wilt niet dat je met die jongen praat.
Moeilijk meisje hoor lolz.
Then she have to try to take the shot self like talking
to that guy i think there is no other option.
If he has not said anything to her, then i dont think he will accept it if you ask him. He might just deny it to you when you ask him, even though inside he might like her.
The best thing is for her to approach him. If she doesnt try now, she might think her whole life why she didnt try.
If he doesnt like her after she asks him, nothing will change anyways.
You talk to him. Or get her to talk to him. If she needs convincing, show her a nice Pakistani drama, you know, the one about perpetual heartbreak or somin, where the girl is like 50 and unmarried (might not wanna print this part, it's just scary :p ). Show her Tanhaiyaan just cause it's soooooo good. Good luck.
Pixie, if you really care for her, I'd suggest talking to the guy yourself. Not outright saying that she likes him, ask him about her, you know, subtly. Good luck, and have fun.
