Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
yes it is your mistake. it is your body, your brain and your control ... so control it. look at it this way ... you have no intentions of getting married for next 3-4 yrs ... fine .... yet you want to be her "friend" but not her maun bola brother ... right? so you are expecting this girl to respond to your advances for friendship of unclear intentions and unknown future for 3-4 years? .... you want to keep her a "friend" without even knowing how your or her family will react 4 years down the line. where does that leave her? do you think this would be a good situaution for her to be in?
if you answer yes to the 2nd questions ... then you are not her friend ... because good, sincere friends don't create difficult situation for each other. if you answer no ... you'd be correct. in which case you should leave her alone.
in summary:
LEAVE HER ALONE
leaving her alone make me hurt a lot. i don't wanna play with her feelings and if she and her parents would like me as her life partner, i have no qualms to be married with the girl i like. but she is younger to be married so do i. isn't it right to indulge in friendship first to see whethe our minds like/dislike accept each other or not? ?