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if he makes this kind of dua, Allah swt will say "are you really serious?!" lol
pray two rakah salat-e-hajat and ask Allah about it.
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Tell your parents to take a mithai ka tokra and some pholoon k haar for her and her family and seek her hand in marriage and live happily ever after.
If that is not possible then make sure you make something out of your life so that people yearn for your friendship instead of you going after others.
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hmm i welcome some mature suggestion but waiting for rishta is bit long whereas i know i am not gonna married atleast before 25 and i am afraid too that may be i would too late and someone propose her 
don’t know if i love her i just like her.
i wanna make her my friend first, please tell me a suitable way
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i thought, he is interested in shadi 
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Mushkil kaam keh diya ye tu apne 
but i like your thoughts
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Why not try to be smartest kid in your class and she will seek your help with her studies and then rest is up to you. It used to work like a charm when I was a student.
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Why not try to be smartest kid in your class and she will seek your help with her studies and then rest is up to you. It used to work like a charm when I was a student.
ha ha ha. kiya din yad dila diye.
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Why not try to be smartest kid in your class and she will seek your help with her studies and then rest is up to you. It used to work like a charm when I was a student.
well she is kinda reserve girl, not talk to boys, thats why i am not getting even a chance to call her name :( should i give her my email or cell number while she going to her home?
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I really don’t see you having anything on your mind other than a good time. Stay away from her.
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awww such a cute thread 
when you two look at each other, is there atleast a hint of her liking you back as a friend? i mean does she atleast notice you or have you made her aware that you want to be her friend or that you want to get to know her better.
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I think that giving her your phone number right away would be awkward...it's too soon for that. When you see her alone...on her way home or whenever....how about just starting off by smiling and greeting her and asking a casual how are you...how'd you do on the assignment/test...etc. A few casual interactions and then maybe tell her that you find her interesting and would like to get to know her better and would she mind if you both exchange contact information.
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Use formula no 212 - section B :
As you stated that she is good at studies - so my child , go to her asking for help , ask her politely if she cares to share the notes of the subject you find difficult ...
try to chase her in library ... and around your department's lawn ... when she sits with her friend during break time...
if it doesnt work straight away then use section C of the same formula ...
pick one of her friend , and make her your college sister ...and then one fine day , with some tears in your eyes , ask her to help you in this regard ..
Yea aj kaal ki generation bi na - sala ek larki ko woo karna nahii atah .... ! online forums pe akay help manGte haiN - abey jab hum tumharii Umar k thay na - well we better dont go there :)
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Ask her about some notes or book. Initiate a convo and take it from there. If she is in your class then i am sure you both will get many chances to talk to each other. thora sabar karo.
The guy who is my best friend now from like 10 yrs. we met in Uni. I missed one class for some reasons. This friend of mine (was not friend at that time) came to me and said Oh tum ne class miss kar di. aaj tou bohat important chapter tha. then he said do not worry I will share my notes. here is my phone number, give me call in evening and i will explain." :@:
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Yes GS is exactly the place to ask this question.
yawn
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you both need time to get comfortable around each other. get to know her better. the more you talk with her the less shy you both will be around each other. offer to hold her books for her after you offer to walk her home from college/school. be chivalrous meaning be courteous and charming with her. find out her interests, if she likes poetry, try to write her poem, even if it's a first try she might find it cute that you even attempted writing poetry for her.....
and be a man, get over the fear of rejection, i know it's easier said than done but be real about it. if it's supposed to work out it will, if not than Allah has some other special girl in mind for you, see this as just a trial run or a way for you to build confidence about approaching or talking to women and a way for you to understand what type of woman you like or the type you want to be with. see it as a way of taking steps to understanding yourself better and developing a better you
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OP......when you get chhitrol ........none of these people going to offer condolenscences...
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Whatever happened to locker talk and putting notes in there?
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you both need time to get comfortable around each other. get to know her better. the more you talk with her the less shy you both will be around each other. offer to hold her books for her after you offer to walk her home from college/school. be chivalrous meaning be courteous and charming with her. find out her interests, if she likes poetry, try to write her poem, even if it's a first try she might find it cute that you even attempted writing poetry for her.....
and be a man, get over the fear of rejection, i know it's easier said than done but be real about it. if it's supposed to work out it will, if not than Allah has some other special girl in mind for you, see this as just a trial run or a way for you to build confidence about approaching or talking to women and a way for you to understand what type of woman you like or the type you want to be with. see it as a way of taking steps to understanding yourself better and developing a better you
No Nisha it won't work if he offers to hold her books or walk with her with out any friendship. I am sure she will not like it. Instead start your friendship with her by asking for notes or lectures. Its a best approach and it works most of the time :p. after two or three times of lein dein of notes or lectures, ask her permission for adding her on fb so that you can discuss lectures in detail with her. When you start chatting with her ask for her number when you feel that she has started trusting you. After this i am sure you will not need more advice seriously.
Best of luck.