Need a break...

[Sara516]

Re: Need a break…

@Niksik

Yes…see it’s different when it’s because of a temporary situation you’re in…such as you ave to go on Hajj where it makes no sense to take the kids, or on a work related trip or to get done with some career requirements… all of that is very understandable.

But I see two things wrong in the picture above:

1. The child’s father isn’t being considered. When he comes home after a hard day’s work, he’s eager to hug his child and play with him. Why take that away from him? And since I know the family, I know that after work, the dad pretty much takes care of the kid’s needs such as bathing and diaper changes, feeding, playing, putting to bed… so it isn’t like the poor woman has a useless husband.

2. She can take care of her personal time issue by taking a weekend off alone, or go visit friends, or hire a nanny part time or something instead of dumping her kid.

As kids, we went on summer vacations to be with grandparents but see the attitude with which we’re being sent away was different…

@Niksik

That’s what I think…and I did bring it up to her, but she said she’s always had issues with people who are too attached to others and can’t believe how folks can sacrifice their lives in the process of raising children. I was a little surprised and told her that usually moms don’t consider what they do as a sacrifice but as a privilege, a blessing…but she said there should be limits to that. I guess that’s her.

She sounds like a selfish and cruel woman.

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