Lets say one of your family members, eg aunt, gets upset and jealous after hearing something about you just because her daughter isn’t as happy.
Do you think that the same aunt or her children would do something to harm you, for example could they go to the extent of physically hurting you? or like cause problems between a married couple?
hmmm jealousy is dangerous. it does make a person blind, but u have mentioned ur aunt in this. If she did something like that in past, then it does not hurt to be little careful in her matter knowing her nature. But if u have a doubt nothing more than that then relax, all mothers have this, some have little and some have to a great degree. If u feel its to a great degree then just be little careful rather being doubtful of something bad is about to happen.
Pray and Read the 4 Quls, and trust this is effective. Remember, Allah is in control, no one can take away what is meant to be yours, and no one can bring you anything that isn't meant to be yours. Pray to God because only he can give and take away.
There are verses in Quran you can recite for protection....3 Quls, Ayatul Kursi, etc. Apart from that if you feel that your aunt/cousin are jealous of you, then be careful about how much you reveal to them and the manner in which you do so. And I know this is easier said than done as I also have some toxic relos that I prefer to avoid like the plague.....but try to show kindness to your aunt and cousin...as in help them out, etc. Sometimes that can alleviate the tension.
Lets say one of your family members, eg aunt, gets upset and jealous after hearing something about you just because her daughter isn't as happy.
Do you think that the same aunt or her children** would do something to harm you, for example could they go to the extent of physically hurting you?** or like cause problems between a married couple?
Did you ever feel that about some one else too?
Do feel this over and over if so , you need to see a head doctor.
yup i have same question becoz im getting married soon INSHALLAH and my aunt want her daughter to get married before me so she put very close dates and he is so jealous the mithai we got in my engagment from inlaws she liked it so much that every time she use to give that mithai in different occassion of their childrens ....so i little bit worried about these nazar and jealousy thing kyun im not like this and my family is also didnt get jealous with any1
I always thought about this, I mean im a little skeptic towards the whole nazar thing. but I know for sure, jealousy builds up negative energy, no good ever comes out of it. and jealousy doesnt have any treatment...its like a disease..
wow how can aunts become that jealous?? i would die for my neices and nephews
Its true! I know soo many aunties that are like this. But what hurts the most is knowing how they are and still having to greet and pretend to be nice to them.