Do you enjoy doing this in public ? Better not but some do.
Dental floss or use of tooth pic.
Scratching of private parts or behind.
In my teenage years one friend of mine will walk up to the person scratching their own private parts or behind and ask ’ Mian khuja doon ? " The person will be embarrassed and will stop immediately and would never do that again in public.
Cleaning your own ear by putting your own finger deep down your ear. Same friend will walk up to the person doing so and ask " Maza aa raha hay , hain na ? " That will also result in embarrassment and that person would never do that in public.
Picking the nose ( we have discussed it in another thread at length).
and what about thooking in public. not the normal thook but the one which is spitted in full strength like... aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaakh too with all the gand bala and balgham,
it's all so gross. people should realize that others might find it offensive and disgusting. this one time at kebab king in jackson heights, we were sitting down eating food when we saw this one uncle walk up to the salad bowl, put his hand inside and started digging around for carrots. in the end, he grabbed a whole bunch of lettuce as well and walked away, and this was during their lunch buffet with an entire line right behind him watching him do this. he sat down at the table next to ours and started digging inside his ears.. aaargh. since then, i have stopped eating kk's buffet and salad.
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my only problem with the likes of mirchi is that wht exactly is he/she/it is trying to achieve by posting such stuff here? if he/she/it is really so pissed off at lack of manners of others then show some balls [not to scratch], go up to the person and tell him/her how he/she is making an ass of him/herself infront others, especially jaban-e-mohtaram mirchi. that i would consider worth praising. you can't talk about others bad manners behind their backs hoping that they'll know by some miracle. this is totally wrong to walk away and then talk about it as if its your God damn given right to bad mouth others but do nothing to correct it. i know mirchi doesn't have any THAIKA to correct other but then he/she/it doesn't have the THAIKA to bad mouth others as well. if you have problem with someone about something then confront it rather than to walk away and become mighty mouse by posting on forums.
you know i was talking about people in general, right? and not you? i was talking about people who actually DO these things and don't care about others finding it gross and offensive.
it's all so gross. people should realize that others might find it offensive and disgusting../quote]
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my only problem with the likes of mirchi is that wht exactly is he/she/it is trying to achieve by posting such stuff here?
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my only problem with the likes of mirchi is that wht exactly is he/she/it is trying to achieve by posting such stuff here?
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Please read post # 2 on the same thread which tells you my motive.
You do not need to be so harsh about it if you are not one of those who do it all in public and seems to be enjoying it.
Then why is he so mean and cruel in this post # 6 ?
If he did not like the topic and he is well mannered the best he could do would be to ignore it.
Maybe saree raat khatmaloon nay kata tha us ko or he had hangover.
I think that I am pretty normal in public. I don't spit, but I do blow my nose, my nose gets itchy alot, so im always scratching it. And i bite my nails. Someone comes up to me and makes a snotty comment that they'll offer it for me, yes i will think they're being assholes. So if u dont like it, turn away? its not like they're spitting ON you or throwing that stuff in ur nose ON you......
but i do admit, i hate it when ppl spit any where, its so nasty.
so that makes it ok for the lot of you to embarrass ppl in public? you think you are some kind of manner-macho-man or manners-militant who can go around embarrassing ppl in public? there are probably many different ways, decent ones, to make ppl aware of their bad manners but to embarrass in public simply does not stand on any merit. and like i’ve said before, posting about such things on these forums will do no good to anyone. except to give u the sweet sensation of demeaning another human being. i don’t know wht type of islam you follow but the one i follow doesn’t encourage a person to embarrass another in public. yes bad manners are an issue for everyone and issues can be resolved in a decent manner aswell. remembetr, to confront and correct others manners is a manner itself. so learn it and follow it.
so that makes it ok for the lot of you to embarrass ppl in public? you think you are some kind of manner-macho-man or manners-militant who can go around embarrassing ppl in public? there are probably many different ways, decent ones, to make ppl aware of their bad manners but to embarrass in public simply does not stand on any merit. and like i've said before, posting about such things on these forums will do no good to anyone. except to give u the sweet sensation of demeaning another human being. i don't know wht type of islam you follow but the one i follow doesn't encourage a person to embarrass another in public. yes bad manners are an issue for everyone and issues can be resolved in a decent manner aswell. remembetr, to confront and correct others manners is a manner itself. so learn it and follow it.
I do not have the stomach to embarrass someone doing any of those things in public other than my kids. But I would not embarrass them in public either.
I still do not understand what are you so offended about ? Where did I say I embarrass anybody doing any of those things ?
Read you own post # 6 in the light of highlighted text and ponder about your own mannerism.
This is my last reply to you on this topic.
