Naming the first baby and Family involvement..

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Re: Naming the first baby and Family involvement..

@nadz123

not sure about 1st child, with me, my husband had said he liked a name even BEFORE i was pregant with my first. he went on and on and on and on and when he found out we were having a girl, he began calling my stomach that name too.

so when she was born, he saw the 23 hour labour i went thru, the pain and the birth, he timidly asked me so have u thought of any names, …i wanted to smack his face in. after brainwashing me with only one name for over a year, OF COURSE NOT.

bless, he only asked me cos he saw the pain i had gone through, however we did name her what he had alreayd chosen.

2ND TIME- i did some chalaki. my mum liked a name, but she was hesitatant incase my inlaws would object. so in the end i told everyone that my eldest daughter had picked the name ( we wrote all names by both sides on papers, and got my daughter to pick a papaer) obv we told them she picked the name my mum liked.

DO SOME CHALAKI. seriosly. sorry but many husbands side families always think they have the upper hand in choosing names.

must salute you for the chalaki