Re: Name change after marriage
My first name was given to me by my parents…the people who gave me life. They are the only ones who are allowed to touch it. My birth certificate has their name on it, not my inlaws. If my inlaws want to change my husband’s name because they no longer like it, great! If they dare mention mine, there will be problems. What kind of jihalat is this? Im sorry to be so harsh but this kind of stuff really bugs me so much!!!
Since we’re girls and we marry into a guy’s family, we are no longer our parents’ children? How hurt must her own parents have been? This is their child and now she doesnt even have the name they gave her? We cant see our parents after marriage, we cant leave the house without permission after marriage, we cant even keep our names after marriage, what is this??? Such backward practices really get to me…