Cool! that’s your home, and it is between you and Allah swt.
She was out of line totally! You were her guest, and her job was to make you feel comfortable in every which way.
For cryin out loud, you were there to visit her (and not attending a religious function I suppose).
You know these Pakistani-Arab wanna-bees never let a go chance to put others down all in the name of religion.
Fair deal.
Yeah beware of Jihadis. They try to impose their version of myopia on everyone.
Best wishes and keep praying, and continue that special connection with Allah swt.
May Allah swt accept the prayers of everyone.