Naivety...

Right now…one of my friends has a girlfriend…he was recently exposed as having cheated on her with two other gals…

But rather than this being an incident of worry for him…it is for him the best thing that could ever have happened to him…becuase as he says it he prevailed…shes forgiven him and taken him back…

Now lol…my friend is a dick…no denying that…he is childish at times…but now that this gal has forgiven him…he thinks hes invincible…

The fact is…he can cheat on her all he likes now because she forgave him…for him she accepted his infidelity…so now he can take her for granted and do it again…which i know he will…

Fact is while i feel sorry for the girl…shes into him…he really doesnt care…she should be a bit less naive…surely the fact that he cheated on you in the first place is a sign that he isnt really into you…they havent being going out long so to cheat that early…for me would be game over…(in long relationships the rules are different somewhat)…but to cheat so early on…the girl should know that he isnt correct for her…but rather than following ration the gal follows emotions and unfortunately this is going to get the poor gal hurt…

Fair enough you like the guy…but there is no point getting into something one sided…why would she accept being one of three…i find it more weird considering shes a virgin…you would feel she would be a bit more choosy over her partners…but strange gal…genuinely thinks he will change…

Just cos a man cheats doesnt mean he will cheat again…but if you cheat on a gal…and she takes you back you are likely to cheat on her again…because you can take for granted that she will forgive you…and that is not a good situation for the girl…its a perfect situation for a boy who doesnt care becuase hes got a gal who he doesnt feel he needs to be respectful to…

Its a shame cos shes a nice girl…but certainly a stupid one…you would think people would learn but no lol…

Naivety is the worst quality a girl can have because she believes what she wants to believe…she sees lies as truth and facts as fiction…naive girls always end up hurt…so please dont be so stupid as to think that he wont do it to you again or that he will change…lol if there are problems that early you should end it…there is no benefit to one way relationships…

Thats my rant for the day…

Re: Naivety...

You hang out with a lot of dickheaded guys..

Re: Naivety…

as a paki friend of mine once said

"joh mazaa pyali mien hai…voh thali mein nahin

Joh mazaa pyali mein hai…voh thali mein nahin

Joh mazaa baharvaali mein hai..gharvaali mein nahin" :flower1:

Re: Naivety…

Uhm thas kinda stupid dont’ u think? Who says you can’t hav fun with ghar-wali? :hoonh:

Re: Naivety...

PD: jis banday ki yeh rai hai i am sure uski biwi bhi kehti hogi

Jo mazaa pyale mei hai woh thale mei nahi

Jo maza baharwale mei hai gharwale mei nahi

Men who have this kind of thinking are nothing but sick, ill, retarded, jerks. They have no respect for themselves or their spouse. They should be burned alive.