Naive n stupid

i thought i was one never believe it till today!!!
Well i realized one thing today, i disliked someone because i was told that she didnt liek me. Out of the blue i spoke to her on the phone today n shes not as bad as I assumed she would be. I was on gupshup Pm’ing away when she called. First i was liek ughh.. why herrrrrrrrrrrrrrr but then again we botth realized we were set up. she assumed i hatred her n i assumed she hated me. What a friggin middle school situation n how friggin immature of me. She invited me to her shaadi.. how nice!!! My advice, test out peopel for urselves.. but has this ever happenbed to anyone.. u took somone’s word cuz u knew them better n didnt give another person a chance. I really feel horrible.. scum of the earth doesnt begin to decribe me. T o think iwas somewhat smart. sheeeeeeeeeeesh.
i seriously need to reevaluate myself n the peopel im around.
try not judgning me. :blush:

never happened to me :D
what did happen was, I that I liked some one but after a while I saw their true character or the better, the lack of character :D

better late than never prae...

awww dont worry bout it :flower2:

i think it happens to a lot of people.. im sure its happened to me but my brain aint functioning right now, so i cant give u an example..

sometimes we trust somenoe elses judgement so much that we forget that its wrong what we’re doing.. and i reckon sometimes the person whose telling u so and so aint nice, dont even know what they’re saying or doing..

for example, when ur friend is telling u bout a guy she likes or is with and shes telling u he did this and that and bla bla.. and depending on what she tells u, u end up really disliking the person or liking them (i prefer the liking)… umm this is a really bad example come to think of it.. neways dont feel bad about it.. u realised u made a mistake, so ur sins are forgiven hehe

no no.. it helped thanks sweetstuff… :hug: :flower:

awww :kiss: thats great

its ok.. i dont like a particular person and ive never even met him haha..

Yes that happend also to me and now she is my best friend.
I also did not like her before but when i talk to her i saw she is
not that bad like i thought.

Oh it happens wid all of us ..we should try not to judge ppl like that but pirr bhi all of us do .. dont worry :hug:..
i did the same thing so many times :bummer:..

Usually it is the other way around, ie you think someone is nice, but it turns out he/she isn´t.

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*Originally posted by Umer: *
Usually it is the other way around, ie you think someone is nice, but it turns out he/she isn´t.
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yea thats what I was thinking aswell :-|

I mean how can u dislike some one without not knowing him/her? :)
Just cuz some one else says so? :)

I dont mean to offend anyone, but thats pretty shallow :)

Dutchy, i try to be not shallow, but the situation was that she was shy, i was shy n i fdont open up n then i hear she thinks im all that .. n for her to think liek that, well she didnt kno me.. n i was gettin this info from a very reliable source .. so i thought.. its all so high-schoolish, no i mean more liek middle.. but atleast i learned sumthin .. right.

feel so much better knowin it can happen to anyone