Re: My would-be-hubby???Confusion
I donot know why you cannot speak to him FD.
It is always recommended for the individuals to communicate in some unobjectionable way like mails , letters , phone or face to face meeting what ever is possible.
I can undestand , how cannot you speak to your parants "I want to speak to my fiance"
On other hand donot thik your parants would encourage you for this (very little parants do that) , so you have to find your ways by yourself.
If you have siblings or his siblings , you take their help for establishing some link but you should initiate with the most easy source , that could be hand written letter.
You have engaged to him , and gona be his life partner so donot shy , buck up and give the letter to yours or his siblings.
where you can hint him about other possible ways of mutuall interactions , as soon you initiate the process you will see the results.
I donot think some one will mind this and your parants are in no exception.