I dont quite agree with some of the responses here. Theres certain rules guys need to accept in relationships with the fairer sex. SOME of them are:
1. Girls NEVER fart, burp, poop or experience any other sort of distasteful bodily functions.
2. We are also not only allowed but are expected to lie about our age. Its nunna your business guys! No matter whether its your mom, aunt, cousin, wife etc.
Mr Drac....you have just lost your confidence because you think that a mere 3 year difference in age makes her this "worldly" out-of-reach person. Well, she is exactly the same person she was before you found out her date of birth. You loved her before so you can learn to love her again, SHE hasnt changed - you have. You dont need viagra, you just need confidence.
Its husband and wife's personal matter, should have been kept between them...and ofcourse talked out again between them only. Bringing it here is just plain simple stupidity. (Pardon my words) But personal matter like these aren't for public no matter how desparate you are ...if real help is required ask someone wiser and with knowledge of family problems and handling themwell , especially who could advise you correctly.
Orpheus is of the opinion that this type of thing should remain completely private and between just husband and wife.
Good point, O. But still when you want or need advice on a private or embarrassing matter, forums like this allow you to post anonomously. You can get the help you need without revealing who you are etc. I think its better to seek answers and/or advice rather than just let things fester.
lol!!! I hope you're rightr Barfee!!! INshallah!!!
Seriously though, when you post something private and embarrassing, you can expect to get muchly hassled...but also will get serious and helpful replies IMHO. People here are into busting chops but are also good, good people. You have to take the good with the bad, yeah?
She is your WIFE! Of course in marital relationships one should have respect and consideration for their spouse in or out of bed..however this doesnt mean you have to do pardah from one another. So why feel ashamed? confused smiley
i’m not giving any advice… i will only do so if its a matter of death and life. dracula yaar i’m sure u’ll survive juz fine, afterall age is juz a matter of numbers…
Listen dracula.......go to a psyciatrist...ok and discuss the matter...if you want to stay married..being 3years and some months older makes no difference, unless you are worried that she lied about her age......
orpheus! sometimes you want to talk to others who dont know you and share your deepest secret. Obviously guy was uncomfortable thats why he didnt speak with his mother or a close friend on this...
Barfee i do sort of agree with you.. he needs to sort few things before going to bed ....
as mentioned earlier by Orpheus ..your private life should stay private ...age differnce shouldnt matter at all as we should take guidance from Prophet(P.B.U.H)'s life.
communication is the most important part of a marraige and you really need to work on this factor!!
