TIRING, EMOTIONAL, DRAMATIC, FUNNY, IN-LAW CRAP, NO-SLEEP, NO-TIME, NO-FOOD, SMILE-AWAY, LIPSTICK MESS-UPS, KILLER-DUPATTA, PINS-DIGGING-YOUR-HEAD … and all that!!
I GET WHY YOU ONLY MARRY ONCE.
aside from the horribly wicked (as usual) in-law crap, i have to admit that i had a beautiful time. regardless of my retarded PIL and SIL, i had an awesome/supportive khala-IL and khala’s-friend-IL, who gave me the strength to go on.
for the sake of the must-done betch-iness: my SIL and her fiance wanted to go out for sheesha on the day of my dholki, mehndi, barat and valima! for me, they were completely absent on the day, and were only concerned about having their privacy, and being with each other. completely uncompromising, inflexible, inhuman, incoperative, distant, selfish and arrogant. THERE! I SAID IT 
A lot of nerve-wrecking-ness as well. I was late on my barat day because of reasons … and so my photographer canceled my appointment. Luckily my mother was there for rescue. phew!
On valima-day as well, we were so tired, and couldnt wake up … (got to our hotel at 3:30 in the morning) … because of that, i was again late (1.5 hours or so …)
on my barat day, when we finally got time to eat … people kept coming on the stage for talking … and it was so bloody uncomfortable.
on the mehndi, i came home at 8pm after all the left work cuz i had no one to help me. and i finally managed to get into the shower, but peopple were all the time banging doors to quickly come out. when i came out, there was no light, and i couldnt dry my hair … I HATED MY HAIR ON THE MEHNDI.
DONT EVER HAVE A HEAVY DUPATTA … my barat dress was easily 10kg. hotel pohanch ker the first thing i did was to take off my dupatta and put it around my husband, to get some love and sympathy … 
haaan … pictures …
in the next post
Looking forward to the photos!