Hey ladies .. I hope you’re all well .. you may remember me from a while back .. I’ve been trying to conceive since Jan 2012 after an ectopic pregnancy .. it’s been 3years now .. In these 3 years a lot happened which has changed my life .. I lost my dad .. since then I’ve not been well .. just recently I’ve managed sort myself out and get back to the gynae ..
I’ve now had all my tests done .. I were dreading having HSG .. I kept putting it off but finally last monday I had it it!! i’m so proud of myself for going through with it .. even though I’m sure all the hospital heard me screaming and crying! lol ( I’m that kind of a person who faints whilst having a blood test!) .. after everything the result is that my left tube is blocked and right one is fine alhumdulilah .. I went to see my gynae and she has given me clomid to start with my next period .. but she explained that I have a much much higher risk of an ectopic pregnancy as that is what I suffered from in 2011 ..
since after having the HSG done and hearing that one of my tubes is blocked was so devastating .. I’ve been soooooo upset lately .. everything is getting to me .. plus I’ve not been well .. I work in a school .. I went back in september after summer holidays .. it’s been over a month now and not 1 day has gone by where I have been well .. I’ve got spots on my arm .. then on my leg .. them sudden eczema on my arm allsorts happeneing .. everything has noticed a changed in me at work .. last week at work I got so upset over a little thing and I started crying so much .. It’s like I can’t take it any more .. so now I’ve been signed off work for afew week .. I’m so upset so down so hurt .. I don’t know how to describe what I’m going through .. It scares me of what’s ahead ..
Ya ALLAH JEE sabki mushkiley asaan kare .. sabko naik aulad de inshAllah .. I pray no one goes through what I’m going through .. I’m trying to get through this but it’s like I cant cope anymore …
Sonipari i am sorry for your dad’s loss…listen just remember Allah mian is not going to burden you with what u can not bear…just have faith in Him…i am a true believer in duas …Allah says mujh say mango main tumhain jawab doun ga…duaoun say taqdeer tak badal jati hay…so just pray …trust me your prayers will be answered inshaAllah…stay strong
I haven’t no .. I thinking I need to just sort myself out and take everything as it comes .. I’m thinking to get some vitamins preferably pregnacare ones .. I need to make sure I’m fit and healthy before starting the clomid ..
It worked for my friend, she has 4 kids now MA after initial difficulties in trying to conceive. Did you ask a doctor about D and C to unblock your tubes?
D & C is Dilation and curettage. A few people I knew in Pakistan had this procedure done to help them conceive. They had blocked tubes. One of my cousins who had this done had 4 kids after that. Ask your doc about this.
thanx I will look into it .. Being at home, thinking things through and praying is making me feel a little better .. InshaAllah I’m hoping for the best
Just so you know, Clomid can have some very intense effects on your emotions. This is not something to be afraid of, but you need to be aware, especially as you seem vulnerable right now. Please talk to your doctor honestly about your concerns, including any anxiety and depression you’re feeling. Does your spouse know/understand?
Keep praying and enjoy a quiet walk if possible. Best wishes to you.
Thank you so much S02 .. my gynae did say it could have an effect whilst taking clomid .. that’s why I’m off work now so I can get my energy back prepare myself for the next stage and sort myself out before starting clomid .. it does scare me a little bit though .. my hubby knows and understands everything .. he’s my biggest support my rock! Alhumdulillah .. I’m so grateful for having such a caring loving and understanding hubby like him
It’s good to take it easy and avoid unnecessary demands. But you may also find that you need to keep yourself busy. TTC can make us a little obsessive, and sometimes other goals and responsibilities are a welcome distraction.
D and C has nothing to do with opening the tubes..such procedures deal with the uterus directly not fallopian tubes… and clomid worked for me, I have a 2 year old son now Mashallah and Alhamdolilah
One of my friends had a lot of fertility issues, she did Clomid and Ivf but it didn’t work. She finally found out that one of the tubes being blocked/damaged was the only thing that was spoiling her chances of conception and carrying a viable pregnancy thru. The doc suggested that they do surgery to remove the tube or tie it (I’m not sure which) and that would improve her chances. After her surgery she became pregnant soon after without any drugs or other kind of intervention. She mA has a healthy baby girl now. Maybe u can ask the doctor if that is the case with u. She was first getting her treatment in Dubai but went back to pak for the surgery.
Thanx ladies for all your information .. I’ve taken my first round of clomid .. let’s see what happens .. Hopefully clomid will work for me InshaAllah .. when I next see my gynae I will discuss what you lot have mentioned
I know it’s unlikely that’s why I mentioned it. She had been going to fertility doctors for years doing all the regular lines of treatment for it but nothing worked. Then finally she went to some place that someone had recommended and they did tests on her and determined that this might be the cause of her problems and that doing the surgery might help her conceive on her own.
There is this way of opening blocked tubes Blocked Fallopian Tubes - Open Without Drugs or Surgery
I have noticed in the west they treat you with Clomid and then mostly go for IVF which is not the case in Pakistan. They opt for other methods too.
.. it’s been 3years now .. In these 3 years a lot happened which has changed my life .. I lost my dad .. since then I’ve not been well .. just recently I’ve managed sort myself out and get back to the gynae ..
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.. InshaAllah I’m hoping for the best
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