If it helps i just lost my brother on Friday. I know it’s hard even if i lose only one finger my hand becomes useless. However my Brother was an innocent and hard working man who died in much agony in this world but i am certain he will be rewarded with Janat and that leaves me no reason to feel bad.
True we no longer have the shadow of my elder Brother, and now there are just four of us… no more diamond formation. But i am still satisfied. Theres no use in weeping, i am glad he will be able to make shafat for my sins in ahkirat.
For this reason i will keep his memory alive and shall not bismirch him by weeking for he would never allow it… so why do it?
My brother was my shadow, without him i feel incomplete, never again will me and my brothers be able to fill his place. He was the centre finger of our hand. Without the hand what use is our strength of arms?
However we can still honour him becuase he is not dead he has just gone to a better place. He was a shaheed so why cry for that achievment it should be a time of pride.
Brother i miss you so much, but i know your still with me and you will always be our vanguard.
My goodness Faris, Iam so sorry to hear that! Allah (SWT) aap aur aap ki family ko khoob hosla daye aur aap kaye bhai ko akhriyat kaye punishment says bachaye Ameen. Iam amazed at how casual you are being about it but you’re right. Your husband would not have liked it if you cried alot so no point in doing so.