Im sorry for those of you who havent been following…im not going to go through the WHOLE story again.
For those of you who have.
I did istikhara and left it upto Allah.
He invited our family to his house and we went but literally the day before he also got promoted and his job is taking him to China.
Its not going to work logistically for now. The families decided that for now its best if we all go our own way and if he does come back to the UK and i am not committed to anyone else then we will try and get to know each other again.
I take this as a sign from God, that this is best for me for now.
Don't deliberately keep yourself "uncommitted" for this guy......continue the search. You may meet someone even better than this guy. Maybe I'm wrong, but if someone is REALLY TRULY interested in you....they'll have the desire to maintain communication regardless of distance/location. InshaAllah you'll find someone who is far more compatible and consistent.
Don't deliberately keep yourself "uncommitted" for this guy......continue the search. You may meet someone even better than this guy. Maybe I'm wrong, but if someone is REALLY TRULY interested in you....they'll have the desire to maintain communication regardless of distance/location. InshaAllah you'll find someone who is far more compatible and consistent.
Oh most definately! The rishta search continues.
Im really not going to sit around and wait god knows how long for a man i hardly know...
Me and him i think are going to keep in touch but im not going to wait for him if that makes sense.
Im sorry for those of you who havent been following...im not going to go through the WHOLE story again.
For those of you who have.
I did istikhara and left it upto Allah.
He invited our family to his house and we went but literally the day before he also got promoted and his job is taking him to China.
Its not going to work logistically for now. The families decided that for now its best if we all go our own way and if he does come back to the UK and i am not committed to anyone else then we will try and get to know each other again.
I take this as a sign from God, that this is best for me for now.
Welldone girlie for your mature attitude. Thats the spirit. I am happy that your matter has not unnecessarily lingered on for sooooo many months. Its really difficult to come back to senses for girls who usually take things quite seriously and emotionally without being cool and practical. Good luck for your future.