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thank you for the help

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There may be some underlying issues, and that is why she is behaving that way. And until you don't understand those issues, it will be difficult to manage your sister. Have you tried talking to her?

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Get HER married off

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she wont

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How will that solve the issue? She will start having issues with her husband/in-laws and that would upset the family too.

Why not get down to her real issues and sort them out.

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just tell her

jo kehta hai, wo khud hee hota hai

and move on…

:chai:

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:biggthumb: nice one man hahahahahahahaha

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Slap her silly , that will teach her. :snooty: I am sure your parents will not mind and will be happy that someone taught her a lesson.
Or you can reward her and spoil her and hope someone else does to her what I suggested.
A wise old man was walking down the street with his friend . A kid came from nowhere and said some swear words to this wise old man . The old man called this kid and give him a shinny coin . The friend said " come on this goofball swears at you and you rewarded him, how come ?"
The wise man said " if I slapped him people will boo me for slapping a little kid. I am spoiling him by rewarding him and if he swears at some youg mean guy that guy will give him a good beating and teach him a lesson. "

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Katherina and Bianca?

I think this is always the case among sisters. Like I have two elder sisters and I jokingly call them Cinderella's sisters.

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This is going to sound silly but hey I'm just trying to help. If you've tried talking to her and to your parents and neither of them listen to you, you can try sending her an email or a message on facebook? No seriously, you need to communicate your worries to her and if she isn't willing to listen to you, how else are you going to communicate with her? Write it all down. She might delete it without reading it but worth a try, no? Be polite and let her know you want things to work out between ye and that her behaviour hurts you a lot etc etc... If that doesn't work either, just quit talking to her. May be she'll start missing you and may be she'll think over whatever you had said to her and may be she'll change. Until then, you shouldn't let her decide how your life is going to turn out. Don't be depressed and don't force yourself into marriage just to get away from her. Take control of your life, you do your own thing, let her do hers.

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lets take her to a restaurant and pretend to very nice.

ask her, if she need anything. when she start yelling on parents/siblings, you can take her glass of water.

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Take her glass of water or throw a glass of water on her face to calm her down. :)

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try to find her weak point or some kinda thing she did that she would be scared if parents knew about it…know that then exploit it to the best of your benefit :slight_smile: i did that when i was a kid. my bro smoked and i saw him smoking. i blackmailed him saying that if he didn’t listen to me i would reveal his secret to my dad :slight_smile: he behaved after that lol :cb:

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Something has to be bothering her, and since she's the vocal type I'm sure if you ask she'll tell. Then the hard part would be to resolve the conflict with everyone's satisfaction.

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siblings like these can ruin one's life, another way to leave the house is to go for studies in another city or even abroad.

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^that's best advice. When you cant deal with them, either ignore or try to stay away from them. If you can't leave the house for studying or whatever, stay in your room as much as possible and avoid her. During her yelling, stay polite but firm since you're the younger sibling but don't take anyone's crap. A calm "you ca stop shouting now, I heard you the first time" OR "I don't care for your opinion right now" should be enough.

If I could, I'd try going away for college. Siblings start appreciating each other when they're not in their faces all the time.

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well why is she so upset at you all?

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thank you guys for helping and trying to understand. BBcue, i will try that, actually.

Studying away will cost me more money so this option is right at the bottom of my list.