Re: My problem
Dont focus on what others tell you off their married lives. You are not married, so y bother worrying about it. Just live your life and pray for a good partner. Marriage is not always about misery and worry. Marriage is much more than that. And what you hear from others is only a part of it. So better not focus on it. And yes, do not turn down good rishtas just because you fear marriage. Instead invest the same energy in knowning the family and the guy and then arrive at a decision.