**i dunno myself what are AFTER-MARRIAGE responsibilities...but i have seen many gud husbands turning into MOSNTERS after marriage and i fear that thing...then everyyyyyyyyyyyy one has soooo many lil problems,of inlaws,or husband being too much demanding/commanding or 'sarial pan' of husbands and how it effects their wifes' lives...
after telling their long horrible stories,they tell me 'bachu ye tou tumko pata lag jaye ga k shaadi kya cheez hai'...they say i'll lose my independence...aisi life nahi rahay gee,bohat responsibilities hon gee...bla bla
i am too much afraid of it now..and when i cry at every proposal,my family says u need a psychiatrist,u r being abnormal,all girls of ur age are so happy wen they get married and u r being upset... bla bla...though i understand that itz not possible to remain single ever,but even to get married is becoming tuff 4 me :(**
Neha dear... all u want is to watch atleast one romantic movie every night for the next 60 days. And movies with wedding themes.
Problem solved.