my pathetic husband

[Theorist]

Re: my pathetic husband

@Muzna

I’m sure that there isn’t a rehab facility that teaches you to make friends wisely…but the school of life and the guidance of loved ones around you certainly does.

I would hate to suggest to someone that they give up on their husband and father of their children because he made some bad choices about the company that he keeps. I like to believe that I would devote a bit more effort to helping this person and expect that he would do the same for me.

Perhaps we don’t see eye to eye on this but I don’t think that either situation warrants an immediate decision for divorce. I believe that we owe our partners more.

See the thing is, people can turn to drugs to lessen the pain of something that bothers them to the point of giving up on life. If you are too gullible to give in to temptations then that’s going to be there for life. it’s easy for a person to go back to drugs who has drug junkies as friends than someone who lost interest in life and then got it back… His friends will come around eventually and try to tempt him again..

Besides, if someone doesn’t have enough common sense to know that drugs will absolutely ruin his perfectly good and balanced life, then he’s a sore loser and surely not a keeper. <if this sounds like the OP’s husband, she should divorce him..