My mom keeps putting me in awkward positions....

[bourjois]

Re: My mom keeps putting me in awkward positions…

@ConfusedMe

My mom tells her friends EVERYTHING about me and whats going on in my life she also lies and tells them that me and my sister don’t do a damn thing at home. Before I used to ignore it, but I am a mother now and I won’t put of with this kind of behaviour!! I don’t have any privacy, she goes thru my stuff too and tells her friends EVERYTHING, how much I make, what i bought, what i wear, how much i spend on what, where i go, who i go with, everything.

I told my mom a couples of weeks ago that I would get a place of my own and leave for good if she didn’t stop. She has not stopped. She tells her friends that I got angry with her, and that she hasn’t done or said anything wrong. Then her friends come over and “kasam uthate hai” that my mother hasn’t told them anything, which puts me in a weird and awkward position.

My siblings and father have tried talking to her, nothing helps. I don’t know what to do.
I can’t do this much longer, with everything that has happened to me by my ex and his family, I just want some peace.

Any advice?

You are married, why you are not living with your husband?