My Mom and My Dad

Re: My Mom and My Dad

Come on now, don’t hate your dad. Not too long ago you had posted that your mom’s nagging and backbiting about her in-laws gets on your and your dad’s nerves. You had also said that your dad is very romantic toward your mum. He has his positive points. Since you don’t live with them, you’re not around to see both sides of their spats. It takes two people to make (or even break) a relationship. No doubt that it’s frustrating, but try to stay neutral, and TALK to your dad as opposed to playing the blame game. Find out his side of the story, encourage him to compromise and show tolerance, and talk to your mom as well if you can. It’s hardly fair for only one party to do all the compromising. Regardless of how difficult the other person might be, they have to do their part as well.