I don't want to divulge details of the fight because you never know who knows you in real life and is reading your comments. I don't mind my life being an open book here but will probably spare my dad the shame of the crap that has come out of his mouth.
I was not asking for details. I am just saying that be unbiased when trying to resovle an issue between two people. If you start with 'I hate men' attitude, you will always find your dad to be at fault.
The crap that has come out of his mouth was a reaction, an effect. You need to resolve the cause that starts the fights, not the effect.