Re: My mistake, My Child's mistake
munyea some time when I read all "normal" ppl's post I think they are all hiding things.
I am not the chosen one If I was exposed to all those things why it come as surprise to ppl. Why they havent see smiler stuff?
that I could never understand.
Re: My mistake, My Child's mistake
You know my mother says if you go into a perfume shop you come out smelling like perfume even if you dont touch anything, and if you go into the Sh!t shop you'll come out smelling like that - try and surround youself with positivity.
As far as people hiding; I dont think its hiding if someone doesnt want to bring out their skeletons on a public forum.
Re: My mistake, My Child's mistake
I guess point I am trying to make is women don't really go by danda-bardar-well-define rules.
After all its man made world.
Women go by what works best. What is more comfortable. All the women from the post had this thing that they practically make right and wrong insignificant for their kids.Just so they can have it easy.
Or may be they were not able to see it at first place.
and mind it, those family are any thing but depressing. Fun to be around. Just no one wants a serious relation with them,
You know my mother says if you go into a perfume shop you come out smelling like perfume even if you dont touch anything, and if you go into the Sh!t shop you'll come out smelling like that - try and surround youself with positivity.
As far as people hiding; I dont think its hiding if someone doesnt want to bring out their skeletons on a public forum.
I am not saying that things about them selves!!! All the things I told you or do tell often not always about my family so not really my skeletons.
Thanks!
PS: drop that punishing mode we are just talking. Why loving that stuff in books and hating it in real life??
Re: My mistake, My Child’s mistake
its a man world huh?
Its so cute that you think that.
And I wasnt referring to you skeletons; I was talking about you saying that you think people are hiding thing.
Khair as usual we’ve derailed the thread. So shall we carry on another time another place?
Re: My mistake, My Child’s mistake
I mean all those rules and stuff are made by men.
And stop getting so angry on women issues.
We will talk after. mery coffee thandi ho rahi hy 
Re: My mistake, My Child's mistake
I can't get mad at my samosa buddy!
Not mad - just trying to understand you better and help you understand cyclestand me.
But I've come to the conclusion you're nuts :P
that you did like a year ago 
wesy aap ko kafi ziada gussa aata hy.. app smart logon sy chupa naheen sakteen
Re: My mistake, My Child's mistake
muniya you are quite right.
when we are young and our elders tell us something we always think that we will not make the same mistake....or that it will turn out different for us. there is little that one can do except remain open and engaged in the situation.
I am one for talking about everything.....that's the way that we were brought up......
ahmadjee is right too.
this is a very generalized discussion. there are certainly some things that I just won't tolerate my daugher doing.....no matter what.