Re: My miserable life - need advice
Children often do things out of fear. Children are scared of being yelled at, time-outs, being spanked, having their favorite things taken away etc. So if you want to go back to Pakistan and have your in-laws treat you like a child, then keep being scared.
However, if you want to treated like an adult, then stop being scared of a fight with your husband! You’re right that he will not take it easy that you’re standing up for yourself and not doing what HE wants like a spineless jellyfish. He will be furious and will yell and even make various threats. So what? Let him. You’re in the UK…not in a 3rd world country where you don’t have freedom or resources available to you if you need help. I believe you have a child too so this isn’t only about you.
No one…whether on this forum or in real life…can help you if you are not willing to help yourself. #1](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1) step in helping yourself is to stop being afraid.