My miserable life - need advice

Re: My miserable life - need advice

What will he do if you say you won’t go? Ask him if he would go without you and stay by himself at your parents’ place for months. If not, why is he asking you to do something he won’t do himself. Maybe he will see it. Tell him if he wants you to have a good relationship with his parents then he needs to let you decide when and where to meet them.