The problem comes from not clearing the air and mutually agreeing to move on. I know it's easier said than done because most of us avoid conflict and confrontation.
Nateeja, sab apne dil main bugz aur kudoorat liyay baitah rehtain hai, aur baad main woh pehli waali baaton ka taana deytein hai.
Even if you don't directly acknowledge what happened in the past, keep doing what you are doing, i.e. being respectful and not giving her an opportunity to complain and if you can somehow slip into the conversation that you're happy that the relationship is more positive now, it acknowledges that you are trying to move past what happened before.
At the end of the day, we are only responsible for our own actions.
He is Mummy's Boy Ria...and other thing is im not living with her she is pakistan...my hubby always says " tum yahan mehman ho ,wo bari hain jo kuch kehti hain sun lia karo konsa hamesha sath rehna hai dono ko jo choti choti baton ko issue banaya jaye isliye just ignore "
Kinzz ........be careful I think she has some plan for you. Now everyone will say that I am thinking negative but I believe there is a purpose behind her changed behavior. Sudden change from MIL is not normal.
if she is being nice to you then you do the same to her but if she suggest anything new for you to do during her sweet talk think a lot before agreeing to it.
i agree with diamond...it happened to me many times in the past one year...every time i used to think she has changed but it was a mere trap :/ .. now i think twice whenever she and my SIL ask me to do anything because they know the likes and dislikes of their son/brother and know exactly how to emotionally blackmail him ... be polite but be careful ..!
waisey seriously you just have to attend her phone calls ... whats the big deal then .. just listen quietly what she says and do whatever you want ... and when you come to Pakistan, keep repeating in your heart, 'its just a matter of few weeks/months'!
