So before I got married, my husband was very sweet. He used to bring gifts for me whenever he came to visit me, like gajras and bouquets. My MIL also used to hug me. Now I have been married for 2 years and I have noticed that he doesn’t bring any gifts for me. My MIL doesn’t hug me anymore.
I want to have children now but I can’t handle their behavior.
Please don’t move this thread to Life because I am not looking for a solution. I am just venting.
beta, aisa karo, meray pass Baba Guru Peer Pehlawi ka mobile number hai. Tum un ko kal subah hotay hi call karna. Woh tumhain aik taweez dain gain, woh tum apnay shohar kay galay main dalna. saath main tumhain wazeefa bhi dain gain, kyon kay 2 saal ho gaye hain aur tumharay abhi tak bachay nahin huay. inshallah Allah shifa day ga.
Niki beta saas healthy saas ko HUJ kerne bhaij do aur zyarto'n per bhaij do, and then start visiting life1 forum cuz wahan per bohut se methodes available hain shohar ko unglion per nachaney ke.
and as once Abraham Lincoln said "shohar ke dil ka raasta pait se jata hai"
so make him some nice spicy delicious food everyday and dont forget to make keema gobhi, and see kuch hi dino main mehboob kadmo main hoga.
Thank you for your time. If I send my MIL for hajj, my husband will have to go with her so I will be alone for a few weeks. What will I do? Maybe he will forget me in hajj and marry a Saudi girl. Phir? After all Islam mey 4 wives ki ijazat hai and right now he only has one.
Also, he doesn't like my cooking and my MIL doesn't teach me. She says I'm too nazuk and khoobsurat to cook, what if I get burnt?