Re: My marriage.....
Fingirl:
Was yours a love marriage? or arranged?
Both of you were from the same locality? (Just to understand your situation, since same town area and love marriage or long engagement period gives enough time to know a family - and not just the individual).
If you knew the family were the way they are - then it would be difficult and you would be "stuck" in this situation. The only way out would be at least giving it a "second chance" by forgetting and forgiving EVERYTHING and starting all over.... but that's tough