Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
i hate gays/lesbians.
That's OK, they hate you too.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
^ hah!
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
Hate the act not the person. Don't shun her, be more understanding towards her and slowly explain the reasons why it's wrong with hikmah. It might be a slow process.
P.s also do dua for her to come back to the correct path.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
I have a cousin who is gay....all the family knows about it...maybe his parents do to..maybe they dont...
In any case...its his business if he is reverse swinging the ball!!!
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
if he is reverse swinging the ball!!!
lolzzzzzzzz
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
all i would say is that i don really know the real fact but what i think is that having feelings for someone of the same sex is not natural instead it is just somin that we self induce ourselves with, it is not a natural feeling. But then thats me so i wont go in gr8 detail, Let her know dat and c what her reaction is. Cuz sometimes girls turn that way with the fear of having a physical relation with a male....... u know for obvious reason (fear of the unknown).
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
I used to think having some feelings for the same sex was also something induced; but then i realized that if it was induced:
(1) Either the person gave it too much time to grow until it became a habit for them.
(2) Its not induced, because no one would enjoy putting themselves in a position where others despise or ridicule him/her. In other words, the pressures and attitudes a body recieves after coming out is not worth the "benefits" of such actions.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
hmmmm
You know what ,aise log sick hote hain.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
i hate gays/lesbians.
Gays are disgusting. Can't stand tehm.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
.... it is just somin that we self induce ourselves with...........
I have slightly different opinion. Sometimes because of already formed behaviors and sometimes because of certain stimuli, responses are triggered. Then we self-nourish these responses to change them in to habits and lifestyles. Hence, they may not be self induced but definitely are self-nourished and propagated.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
Gays are disgusting. Can't stand tehm.
why you gotta be homophobic and ruin the board?? seriously, though.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
I have slightly different opinion. Sometimes because of already formed behaviors and sometimes because of certain stimuli, responses are triggered. Then we self-nourish these responses to change them in to habits and lifestyles. Hence, they may not be self induced but definitely are self-nourished and propagated.
i may have not used the rifht words but the idea is the same right? these feelings are not natural are they?
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
i may have not used the rifht words but the idea is the same right?
Yes! That is why I used the word "slightly".
Feelings being natural? I haven't really thought about that. In spite of different cultures, religions, eras, this has been part of every society. So there must be something which is mighty close to being natural here.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
Yes! That is why I used the word "slightly".
Feelings being natural? I haven't really thought about that. In spite of different cultures, religions, eras, this has been part of every society. So there must be something which is mighty close to being natural here.
might b, but i still think it is not natural,but then again i might b totally wrong, Lekin Allah ney jo nizaam banaaya hai uss mein aisa hona to nahi chahiye :zor zor sey sar khujaaying:
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
Allah ney jo damagh day diya, us say sara masala utha hai. :)
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^i used to think about gays/lesbians as 'people i cant stand' but i worked with a couple of them during high school and regardless of their sexual preferences (which btw i don't agree with at all), they are humans. i still work with one at my hotel and she's such a gem of a person. she knows i don't support the whole gay issue but i prefer to stay neutral rather than yelling from rooftops that i don't like you dating your own gender. she's a great person, mad fun and always been there when i needed her. so i think we should look at peoples' personalities before degrading them for their sexual issues.
Re: My Lesbian Muslim Friend...
I dont think your born with it but i certainly believe it is something that can happen naturally...there are a lot of external influences which affect how we feel or become...its certainly not a choice...but thanks for the replies...