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oh ok I thought u were tolerating :-)
And I don't think u let ppl run all over u..u r kafi hoshyar :-D
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^ haha.. ummz it depends.
b/w isnt hoshiyar a bad thing 
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wasay ahmadjee..inlaws do expect you to somewhat dress up when visiting them. oh chappals are never appreciated on damads so don't visit themin chapals, buy some comfy sandals.... my mom doesn't like my brother inlaw wearing chapals and jeans t-shirt all the time.
b/w I guess this is one of the funniest post in life style..lol
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stop whinning like a woman!!!!
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It’s Ok Ahmadjee. Don’t worry. Just do what pleases you. To piss them off even more, you can mix Ketchup, mustard, and mayo like my brothers do :k:
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yah piss em of n make them talk..
but your inlaws in pakistan or here make fun of you for putting ketchup in everything.. cus if there in pakiland there messed up. all my cousins do it, even on top of fried rice 
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HEhe it's good to have a ' i do not care' attitude. I guess we guys are just overly sensitive. I definetly am. And plus depends on how exposed you've been to all this crap whilst growing up. Myself was too busy with friends so didn't have much family interference or interaction..so it was doubly hard. I don't know..i guess every experience is different. But little comments, remarks etc...they really do make your life hell. And it's worse if your soft hearted and not a fighter...its best to give as good as you get :)
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welcome 2 the club 
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lol
log mukhtalif hote hain, zahir hay pasand napasand or zindagi ka tajruba bhi mukh'talif hota hay.
kisi ko bora na lage to hum kehna chahin'ge (humari zati ra'ay hay) in-laws bhi to bhai behin, Ammi or Abu hain. koi aghar kabhi apni khud pasandi ke khool se nikal kar, baat karain or dil ke band badboo daar darwazon ko khol kar zara taza hawa guzarne dain. to sub mazar badal jate hain. betahasha pyar karnay wale bhai behin miljte hain. her waqt dua ke liay utte howay ma'an ke haat or aik bhorray pap ki mehrban bahain jo her waqt seenay se laga kar rakhnay ko betaab hoon.
lanat sirf shaytan ki liay hay, koi hum se poche to woh log bhi iss qabil hain jo bora kehtay hain apnay bhai, behino or bhorray ammi abu ka.
rahi baat pochna kam ka, paison ka, ya dosri batain jo aksar log zat ka hissa samjhte hain, or sif desi logon ko nishana banate hain. ghalban nahi balk e yaqeenan in ko kabhi zindagi main kisi dosri qom ke logon se qareeb ka wasta nahi raha, warna iss say ziyada or bareek tareen batain to log hair dresser ke haan keh or poch atay hain. dosray qomoN ki ghar ki baat to alag hi rakain. 'Setting near fire place sipping red wine' or sunte jain saray shehir ka kachra nikal ata hay.
khair desi khloss o mohabat ka mo'azna 'Desperate house wives' ke nazreen ke samnay karna bhi bazate khud aik behooda harkat hay. anyways sorry lagta hay aaj phir kuch ziyada ho gaii hay.
adaab
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ah bhai.. I love khalai guys :love:
sometimes I dont let Salman wash his face so he looks kala.. 
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haha.......funny post. just do more of what you do to piss them off.
but desi kala, not kala kalaRe: My in-laws are judging me.
hahaha
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you mean kala kola Sara 
Women tend to be a bit more sensitive AJ. Plus if our in-laws are not pleased with us, we get to hear it through our husband who is more than likely going to find fault with the wife’s behavior/attitude rather than his parents of 30+ years. I don’t think many women tell their husbands, my mother and father said such and such about you so you better straighten your act. If a girl’s MIL is unhappy, the husband is likely to throw a fit at some point or another. If the husband’s MIL is unhappy, the wife and the husband probably won’t make a big deal out of it.
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But why would a kala desi put ketchup on evry thing and specialy around his in-laws ,hmmm sochanay wali baat hai yara,this needs a little cafe-ki-maar 
taking note of MuNiYa’S Salman being prevented from washing his face hmmmm
sounds like a ‘cruelty issue’ human rights,
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i like black guys. have you ever seen a non hot one?? i havent, well there arent alot here , but still.
n pasty white guys are fugly.
n some kaali kaali desi guys are hot too.
n that hot beach tan..:D
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ewwwwwwww kaalay r ugly :yukh:
white boys and kaalay desi guys ::swooooooon:::
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because he like ketchup.. simple answer:p
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I will never let my family treat my husband like that. 
It’s so degrading! your story forshadows my married life in future. :o .. If my hubby feels that way a bit, I will talk it out with my family not in a way that they feel weird or anything. Things should run smoothly in one’s married life or it will come down to you. Why let the problems pile up?
I know where you are coming from. My guy has never been to states, he’s a pure Paki and my family is very americanized. He won’t like it here, because the way my sisters are. They like Amreekan things and they think like them too. Even though they know their values and what their limits are, but still the person who comes from a totally different background will find himself in a very awkward and an uneasy situation. I won’t simply let them rip him apart like that.