Re: My in-laws again...
be stubborn and firm when it comes to what your baby eats.
Re: My in-laws again...
^ Only if you have the energy and ability to follow-through and be in charge and do all the work.
Re: My in-laws again...
I am sure if OP's inlaw will treat her like a princess, she will still complain, the only reason is, she don't want to be here and she will do whatever it takes to make sure that her hubby gets the point and comply with the demand (back to her parents) ( Inta t'ng karooN gee kay 6 mahinay maiN hi wapis layáiN gay mujhay) mentality can back fire...
Babies are often fed with the home-made dishes nothing new or out of world in it, why to make scene out of it, i really feel for OP's husband, who has to suffer her for rest of his life...
Re: My in-laws again...
They feed her masala wale stuff, shes 8month, and now she refuses to eat anything peeka, she wont eat food good for her, only meethi or masala waley food. im sick of them, they also think its ok to use steriod cream on he rface for her eczema. they used a cream called betnovate, i checked it online, and it says not to be used for under 2 yrs old.....wtf, are these people jahil or wat. im so sick of them tampering with her, feeding her stuff bad for her, putting steriod creams on her face and saying kuch nahi hota i told my husband hes a litle meek ****. he will say aram say quietly, mum will njust say ohuu chup kar...and thats it. what shall i do, they are already moody with me, for various reasons, as usual. mood swings galore in this house. i have no idea how to hndle this situation, even saying something nicely, she gets bit uptight and wont talk. i dont know what to do. sick of them with not just their tampering but general crap. MIL said to hubby the other day `im worried about you and ur kids because im not responsible enough apparently...ok so she wants me awake at 7am making her breakfast, running around the house, and an all round slave to my husband....what made her say this? because she caught my husband making his OWN TEA.......
so she went off on one and said ur wife has no idea of responsibility, she doesnt do her duties, etc etc etc etc
what on earth am i meant to do......she is a slave to her husband as is most of our mums..but hey times have changed....yet she nags whinges and then has mood swings the whole time if she can see her son doing his own stuff......and shes worried about my daughter? what? sorry should i be using some acid erosion on her as well to show my affection ..
Nadzz when u r living in a joint family all this happens and I know many a times you don't like it. Whenever my daughter is sick I end up having an argument with my parents because they want to do what they feel is right for her and I am not ok with it. See my recent thread on parenting forum I said my mom gave triminic to her and I did not approve it. Parents are like that and most of the times you will get a response that "humnay tumhay nahi pala kiya?" I do not approve sugar for my daughter yet whenever my mom makes sooji for her she adds sugar in it. Abb main kiya karon ? I can assure you that if u live with your own parents then also this all will happen the only different will be that apko bura kam lagay ga.
Ignore your MIL same way your husband is ignoring. If he is not coming and saying all the things his mom has said to him then just ignore. You can not control her tongue .