my nani always told us i mean her grand duaghters k “beta husband ko apna adhi banao..tum na ho tu us ko kami mehsus ho,tumare bagair us ka dil na lage ,us ki zindagi main apni majboot jagah banao jo koi na cheen sake na hila sake yeh and woh”
my question is yeh adhi banate kaise hain..
my grandmother tip
Naani se puchna tha na.
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kinz:grumpy:
my grandmother tip
Kiya howa, sahi tou keh Rahi hoo, ask naani and PLEASE Hume bhi batao :sid:
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She wants you to become a magician and practice that sawing in half trick?
Maybe not :hinna:
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Hypnosis. Look into his eyeees. You are getting sleeeeepppy. By the time I count to five you will wake up and henceforth become my minion in thought, feelings, speech, and actions…in the presence of company and solitutde…undeterred by distance, sickness and disability, economic recession, war, plague, famine, alien invasion, all unmentioned crises, your evil mommy, the nefarious kaam-wali, and by any object living and inanimate…till death do us part. 
(This is what you should chant, OP).
^The above condition is gonna be in my nikkah-nama 
. I have learned much from Life 1.
Re: my grandmother tip
i have heard this before, but im indifferent.
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I have heard that too, I guess what your nani wanted to say was be courteous and loving, havent you heard 'pani hamesha neeche ki taraf behta hai' that is what my dadi (allah maghfatart kare ameen) used to say. Lets be honest marriage is not the easiest thing on the planet and if handled properly can bring one immense joy and contentment in life.
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I don't really agree with that statement.
"adhi" bananay (getting dependent on someone) versus "truly caring" for someone are two different things.