Firstly, like Reha said stop taking anti depressants they lower your self esteem u start believing that u r weak and u cant do anything try to find strength from inside.
Secondly, her husband remembers the hadith of not disrespecting elders but what about the hadith that one should b good and fair towards his wife? Everyone has self respect the way his wife is being treated is upon him as he got her into this mess..
Not disrespecting elders is one thing but being blind to their torture on his wife and not supporting his wife emotionally r different..u said if she cries he ignores it instead of calming down his wife..u said she was made to work as a slave while she was pregnant where was he then? Didnt he care about his wife or his child? Please Allah knock some sense into this guy give him hidayat hes thinking he is following Islam by not disrespecting his parents but the injustice towards his wife is far worsesigh
ok so your friend is innocent she cant reply back but atleast she can ignore them y take it on herself when she knows that she is right and what her inlaws r doing is wrong..things wont change they wont accept her she shouldnt b concerned about what they say she should accept the reality and live her own life and not take things to her heart.
Oh gosh y m i saying this but she shouldnt give a sh*t about them let them talk y take it seriously y let them win..this is so sad:(