My Friend

is getting married in a month and now she is complaining of headaches/vomit/nervousness/ and most importantly sleepless nights. I think she is going thru pre-marriage anxiety.. what do you all think? please keep it clean and serious replies only.

thankyou.

Re: My Friend

If shes in the US, how about having her take some sort of counseling with some psychotherapist? If shes a college student, I am sure they'll have a free shrink who'd be able to help students out.

Re: My Friend

^ :smack: she doesnt need a shrink.

Lois…she is just nervous about getting married. Maybe it’s time to take her to a day spa. :smiley:

Re: My Friend

^ but its all in the head, isnt it? :hehe: So EMM, tell us more :faizy:

Re: My Friend

sounds like nerves to me. if her diet and everything’s the same, then it’s most probably that she’s just very nervous. same stuff happens with me when a big day’s coming up :chai:

Re: My Friend

^ Whens your shadi khumi?

Re: My Friend

tomorrow. are you coming :emmy:

Re: My Friend

Sorry you gotta delay it, I have yet to perfect my luddi moves!

Re: My Friend

i had told you to have it ready in advance :snooty:

i remember couple of minutes before my cousins had to take me out on mehndi night..... my legs gave up on me.... couldnt even stand for a sec....
my husband called me and talked to me....

jst talk to her abt her wedding.... and let her do the talking....
ask her if she is concerned abt something....

am coming:wink:
make sure the menu is yummmeee

Yes I have known people as the date get closer they quit eating altogether due to anxiety!

seriousely you have friends?..............:D

I've experience headaches when I'm stressed out. But when I'm SUPER STRESSED OUT......I also feel nauseous and weak and light-headed and i can't sleep. I feel for your friend. Hmm, get her to talk to you and express her fear. Maybe she should try talking to her fiance, that could make her relax. If possible, distract her. Hang out, go to the movies, do girl stuff.

Re: My Friend

sounds like anxiety attacks to me. has she seen a doctor? if not, it would be wise to. anxiety attacks are usually sparked from stress. there are ways to combat this. i.e. yoga, breathing techniques, going to a spa, similar activities aimed at calming the nerves.

Re: My Friend

perhaps she’s going cold turkey? :hmmm:

PS. j/k

Re: My Friend

mujhay bhi aisi hi problem hai. meri shadi paanch mahenay mey hae aur mujhay shadi kae saath saath apnay balun ka bhi kuch karna hai

help?