Im new here, but have been visiting this site. Eventhough I know Allah (SWT) is the best planner and I should use my sense more, but surely the other party, who’s neyaat is not pure should not instigate or start something either.
I do have great intution BUT bcoz I have this disease of being loyal and making things work and not giving up in the name of wafadari I strive to be the best and most helpful person in that someones life.
Y cant they return it!!!
Re: My flaws
Your question is way too vague for me to give you any meaningful answer.
Re: My flaws
Loyalty is probably the strongest part of someone’s character but it’s not worth much if it isnt given to the right person. Learn to be loyal to the one who deserves it.
Re: My flaws
Over and over, if you’re giving loyalty to people who don’t deserve it…then you obviously don’t have great intuition.
Learn to be more selective about who you give loyalty to.
Re: My flaws
Again, as I said in your blog as well, why are you expecting a return? Either give selflessly, or restrain. Make your life easy and simple.