Re: My Fiance...
Welcome to cultural indoctrination. I for one have no sympathy for you. A guy is a human being after all. He needs someone to talk to and wants to get input on his views and ideas and problems. That is what you call a solid relationship. When both treat each other with respect and equality. Problem is that you aren't doing it. He is.
I bet when you find a strong guy who would never consult you on his issues and on his problems you will find him closed off and insensitive.
Your job is to listen to him, provide your input and let him decide what he wants to do. Your problem is that you are not doing so. Now mind you if he is a whiney man child who whines about everything and never takes a stand, then yes you are right.