ajj mein majbor ho gayi hon iss chez ko share kerne k liye. kiunki meri zindagi bohat distrub ho gayi hai
meri shaadi ko 5saal ho gaye hein aor mere 2kids hein main job kerti hon orr mere husband b job kerte hein .mere susar ko mujh se yeh problem rehti hai k gher ka kaam main khud kero.like cleaning/washing etc.likin main job kerti hon bache hein phir mehmaan kafi aate rehte hein k mujhe time ka tou pata nai laghta .meri jab se shaadi hoi hai main bohat sari kamwalian lagha chuki hon lakin woh sab ko dant k ya onn ko intna tung kerte hein k woh bhag jati hai ya main onn kaam walion ki baato se tung aa ker nikal daiti hon:(
mujhe samjh nahi aati main yeh kaise handle kero .main apne father in-law ko humsha ignore kerti hon k inn ko meri koi baat buri na lagh jaye .woh shaid yeh samjhte hein k yeh tou kuch kehe gee nei.
father in law ko bolo theek hai ghar ka sara kaam karoon gi but job chor doon gi and apka beta phir meray saray expenses aur meray bacho kay expenses wasay hi pooray kara ga OR apkay husband ko bolain kay apnay father ko samjhaye. Waisay your father in law is like mother in law
Kahani ghar ghar ki main tau main villian mother in law hoti hain. Fathers in law are usually more loving and caring for DILs Diamond put it rightly that your father in law is acting like your mother in law. Where is your mother in law and how come your father in law need to play her role?
whatever inlaw, the story is still the same. the DILS are always taken for granted in this respect. Not that they should be treated like princess (not denying the fact that they were princess at their own homes before marriage) but they should be given atleast some benefit of doubt. I mean HOW MUCH can you extract from a woman and how long? look at the OP. She is working, managing home and kids. Leaving the job alone, which household lady either sits on the throne and keeps delivering orders 24/7? And on the top of all this she is supposed to act and work like a maid as well? only to please your whatsoever illogical ideas and crooked mentality. Such families should better buy slaves instead of bringing daughter in laws :(
ajj mein majbor ho gayi hon iss chez ko share kerne k liye. kiunki meri zindagi bohat distrub ho gayi hai
meri shaadi ko 5saal ho gaye hein aor mere 2kids hein main job kerti hon orr mere husband b job kerte hein .mere susar ko mujh se yeh problem rehti hai k gher ka kaam main khud kero.like cleaning/washing etc.likin main job kerti hon bache hein phir mehmaan kafi aate rehte hein k mujhe time ka tou pata nai laghta .meri jab se shaadi hoi hai main bohat sari kamwalian lagha chuki hon lakin woh sab ko dant k ya onn ko intna tung kerte hein k woh bhag jati hai ya main onn kaam walion ki baato se tung aa ker nikal daiti hon:(
mujhe samjh nahi aati main yeh kaise handle kero .main apne father in-law ko humsha ignore kerti hon k inn ko meri koi baat buri na lagh jaye .woh shaid yeh samjhte hein k yeh tou kuch kehe gee nei.
im too much disturb.:(
Any suggestion?what i do?
looks like there is no way out and you have to live with it. That comment sounded very right "kahani ghar ghar ki". Feel lucky that you spend most of your day at work and these are just few hours of evening when you have to bear your father in law. Also ask your husband for help.
haan koi khobsoorat see , flirt kism key masee rakhoo jo k susar jee pay doray dalay. Uss kaam wali ko nikalnay k baja-a susar jee kaamoon main uska hath bata-ya karain gay. Azmaish shart hay.
Your father in law is from school of thought who thinks that it is only the women's job around the house to do cleaning and cooking. Sounds pathetic. If your father in law is expecting so much from you then..your husband should help you out doing house chores and even raising kids. Make it clear that this is NOT only your job around the house to do cleaning and cooking. My advise, just do what you can do best and communicate with your husband and let him know what his responsiblites are..in addition to bringing dough in the house. Sharing is caring! for god sake..this is well taught in grade 1!
Diamond put it rightly that your father in law is acting like your mother in law. Where is your mother in law and how come your father in law need to play her role?
