My family is always fighting and at war with each other.

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Sorry If I only post about my family problems but it gets to me so much and I don’t know who to vent to. My family is always fighting with each other, mainly between my parents, grandma, paternal aunt and her husband. My auntie and her husband are always getting ticked off at the lamest and pathetic things ever. E.g. you didn’t give me £20 with that birthday card for my son. My grandma always takes my aunties side (despite living with us) and it causes hell. My mother isn’t one to just sit quietly and take it either. Every day atleast there are fights. When we get the odd day where there isn’t no one is happy, they all have sour faces on. This has started to affect me dramatically, I no longer feel happy and I like to most stay confined within the four walls of my room, music on full blast and watching somethind or another to take my mind off of whts happening and try and escape from my real life. I look at other families and they are so happy anf close and theseres us. We hardly have enough family here anyway and what we do, were always fighting. My mother did try and patch things up during this Ramadan on my behest (even thought this time she was at no fault) but my auntie would not have it. We are all so unhappy. Especially me I feel. If Ramadan didn’t remove all problems and fights and sort everything out then I do not know what will. I have no hope for my stupid, backwards and pindo family anymore. I guess where all going to be unhappy for the rest of our lives. yay.

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Oh and I forgot to add, this may be really bad but I feel that Ramadan is just a burden upon me now. Last year everything was good and going well but now because of the situation, I feel as if god does not care and don't really care for Ramadan tbh (although I am fasting anf praying I feel as if im just doing it for the hell of it). This is not right!!

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Also, Please Please Please make Dua for me, that everything become okay iA and turn to Islam again.

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I feel the same OP, make dua for me too

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inshaAllah everything will be fine. Even when things feel bad, try to say Alhumdulillah. I have no other advice other than don't let the anger get to you. Be patient. In time, everything will be fine, inshaAllah

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My family is always fighting and at war with each other.

If you don't mind me asking how old are you? Are you old enough to intervene in and talk to your grandmother since she lives with you? If she is always on their side why doesn't she live with them? Where does your dad stand? You may need to step in to calm everyone down. let your family members know its driving you crazy and you want it stop before relations are ruined and before they drive you mental. Personally people are better cut off from each other than live in a household of a grey confrontational people, it's especially not good for you.

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Sharam karo tum dono...

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Its not only you guys . . . Islam has become just a ritual for most of us . But again Islam is all about struggling for right path .

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What have islam to do with this issue?
OP talk to the men maybe they can help solving the problem

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Start reciting surah e baqra everyday. InshAllah, it'll keep the evil away and bring peace and prosperity into your house. Since its Ramadaan, more reward for reciting this great surah.

Indulge in ibaadat and don't stress. Everything will okay.

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Kion? dua mangnay mein koi burai hai?