My daughter's a tramp, Isn't it cute ?

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A while ago while shopping at Best Buy I couldn’t help but start people watching. One such couple, a mother and daughter, were buying CDs and DVDs in front fo me. The mother was a pretty lady, probably in her mid 30’s, well dressed, probably your typical white, upper class, religious republican. What I couldn’t help notice was that her daughter, who was probably aged 10-12, was wearing a glittery cut-off shirt with the words “I faked it” emblazoned just a few inches above her exposed pierced naval.

Immediately questions started racing through my mind: Did I just read that? What did you fake? A temper tantrum in front of the vending machine? Does the girl really know what the shirt means? Does the mother know what the shirt means? How come they make cheese-filled hot dogs but not chili filled ones?

Thinking about it for a while I realized that with a little bit of hard work and venture capital I could easily rule the stuffed hot dog market. Then the door alarm sounded, and as I watched the security guard demagnetize her new Britney Spears CD more questions started racing through my mind. How could she let her daughter wear such clothing? How could she let that CD anywhere near her stereo?

Chances are good that the girl had to explain it to her mother, or that the mom thought it was “cute” and harmless.

It’s not just this family either, its happening all over America. Kids see sex symbols on TV and want to mimic what they see. After all, it looks good on Britney, it must look good on me too. It’s not just kids, fashion designers know this too. Somebody obviously made the shirt big enough for an 80lb girl to wear.

So the kids want to wear it, the fashion designers make it for them, who else can we blame? Somebody has to be at fault, and as tempting as it is to try and point a finger at MTV, Rockstar Videogames and those damn liberals, it’s obviously the parents who are culpable here.

People wonder why we have such high teenage pregnancy and STD rates, and immediately think stronger laws are needed. The answer is simple. Stop teaching our children that sex is funny or cute. Stop treating sex education as a forbidden subject. Everybody knows that the more you forbid something, the more a child is going to want to do it.

Parents raise a fuss when schools want to teach sex-ed, yet they turn around and allow their 10 yr old daughters to dress like hookers. If you want your kid to grow up right, stop telling her that this clothing is “cute”. It’s not cute at all, it’s sick.

Remember, parental responsibility is not a dirty word.

**Comments: **This is what I see all the time, shirts with really ‘interesting’ messages on them and kids (girls specifically) looking more and more like they belong in the red light district. I found the following comment hilarious in there

*I have a female friend who is knowen for saying,
“What’s next? Low cut diapers?”

*As one of the posters there said…its not just an issue with clothes, but the whole lifestyle and the corporate and media entities that seem to be pushing it infront of the kids, making it seem like the glamorous ‘in’ thing to do.

Re: My daughter's a tramp, Isn't it cute ?

I've seen ppl wearing shirts with disgusting sayings, but they were fullgrown adults.. just very ghatiya thas all..And yeah ur right, parents need to be responsible but at te same time, their kids can just wear the shirts under a jacket and take it off when they get to school.. after a certain age, kids get the urge to rebel.. peer opinion is more important than parents opinion, and the parent becomes the enemy (which at this very delicate age they should be, so to speak).

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Im not sure if the 'urge to rebel' is actually a universal phenomenon or not.

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Yeah just yesterday my niece (VERY YOUNG) told her dad she wanted a playboy shirt!

Re: My daughter’s a tramp, Isn’t it cute ?

$#%&$^%@$#$%%$^&+%$!!!

There are times when kids need to be beaten. :hoonh:

Re: My daughter's a tramp, Isn't it cute ?

I agree with the author of the article. It's not surprising to see under age girls wearing skimpy clothes everywhere and adults scrutinizing them top to bottom. You see this happening in grocery stores, malls, parks and other public places. Although I believe there are other factors responsible for rising numbers of sexual offenders, kids imitating TV sex symbols is one of them.

Considering that we are a materialistic society I think adults as well as children feel the need to be "seen". And so we will do what it takes to attract attention. Wearing skimpy clothes with provocative words is just one way.

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A contradicting statement at the best.

Unfortunately, the more you will take people away from religion, the more it will happen. I haven't seen any studies suggesting that sex-education will reduce the chances of children experimenting with sex; safer sex: yes. may be. Logically, it will promote it.

Human-carved legalities will never help reduce this.

Re: My daughter’s a tramp, Isn’t it cute ?

I wasn’t allowed to wear a top that said “girls rule” :teary1: and i was a teenager back then not a 10 year old..

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Kids do not need to be beaten. Parents need to be. At least those parents that permit this kind of attire.

Noor is 3 years old. I bought her two halter tops that had rhinestones decorating the fronts......they were cute. Would I let her wear them when she's six or eight? No.

I don't know where the line should be in each case, but it needs to be drawn.