My D day is Jan 15th!

well... they have not yet decided as the eldest sis is due to come on nov 25 from toronto... but the latest is that she is wearing a white gharara on baraat (P.s: I'm wearing a white sharara with red work on baraat - being the bride!) ...
So lets c wat gets decided... my family is trying to convince me same colours dont matter etc... dont know.. ive got some reservations...