Re: My bhabhi destroyed my brother’s life and we don’t know how to rebuild it. Need h
Farah,
I hope you never have anyone play with your feelings and life the way you play with his. You are using him like a puppet. You will apologize on your own terms, don’t think he’s worth an apology, have no respect for his feelings, privacy or life, and are now calling him moody.
You have no respect for your brother.
Wow.
I don’t know why he continues to talk to you people.
He doesn’t have mood swings or bad days. He has moments when he realizes how crappy his life is and how he is surrounded by people who don’t love him…just want his money. He got married and even then he didn’t find love - just another user. If he divorces her, what does he have? More people who are waiting to use him for his money? Wow…how tempting.
Please, do yourself a favor and leave him alone. Find a way to stand on your own two feet and stop worrying about his life. Its not just his job to support his parents Farah, its yours too. That’s what I don’t think you get. YOU are just as obligated to provide for your parents as he is.
Responsibility = zimmidar
Does this mean anything to you? Or is this a foreign concept that is only your brother’s problem?